Use The Law of Attraction To Get Him To Love Me Again
My parents introduced me to this guy so that we could get married. We hit it off instantly when we met each other. We were very understanding to each other as well. I had made it a point to be positive and not repeat the same mistakes I had made in my earlier relationships, especially with men.
But as time passed by he distanced himself away from me, reasons being unknown to me. I realized that every relationship requires breathing space so left him to be by himself most of the times.
He introduced me to his group of friends and one day, out of the blue, one of his friends told me everything about his past and how he had treated his ex girlfriend and that he was heading in the same direction of treating me. She told me some things, which were hard to believe. As times went by he actually started to behave in the same way I was warned about by his friend.
And I really do not know what got into me that I decided to end the relationship with him. Mind you we had no show down and it was done mutually.
What bothered me most about the break up is that I was really upset since no break up comes without tears, he seemed to have moved on and so much so that he wanted to get back with his ex girlfriend, who is already in another relationship with a another man for the past 2 years. She has told him upfront that my ex and she have no future together and has no intentions of them getting back for good.
My ex and me have been on talking terms and he keeps telling me that he will and would only get married to her and that I don’t stand a chance to be with him anymore.
This is killing me. I have been reading your updates and following them religiously it has indeed become my bible. I want to thank you that because of you I have stopped crying and heading towards positivity.
The problem is that he keeps blaming me for misunderstandings that have happened in the past and keeps telling me that because of me, his reputation is getting spoilt and he keeps telling me that I am the one bad mouthing him. In fact after this dirty break up I have kept away from all his friends and honestly I have never spoken of him.
I am in a dilemma. I seem to be in a roller coaster ride where I’ve been trying really hard to follow your tips like a bible, but sometimes I break down completely and my mind is filled with negativity towards the entire relationship and him.
I’ve done everything under the sun to get him to speak with me and tried very hard to bring back all back to being normal, but he keeps pushing me away from him.
The more I try to be nice to him and act accordingly to what you have instructed it keeps on getting worse. Mind you I have never even thought of such actions coming from him.
I want your help to make myself stable and tips and guidance of how I should behave in this particular relationship and get him to love me once again.
I request you to kindly help me attain my peace of mind and also help me win his love back.
I would be really happy and grateful to receive a response to my mail. Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
We create our realities by the way we think and the way we feel, and as a result of our thoughts and emotions, we align to experiences that are a match.
It is our thoughts and emotions that are our creative power, and by aligning our thoughts and feelings to our desires, we have the power to create the reality of our wishes.
If it is our thoughts and emotions that create, and we have the freedom to think and feel what we wish, we therefore have the power to create any reality we would like to experience.
So the first thing to understand is, you can never get him to think and feel in any particular way. This would deny him his power, it would deny him his ability to create, and in doing so, you would make him a servant to your desires, rather than a powerful creative being who is free to choose.
Believe me that would never make you happy.
What we think and what we feel could be termed as our vibration, and on any subject, at any time, we hold a vibration of thought and emotion.
It is to this vibration that cooperative
events, circumstances and people are brought together in order for the people and things involved may experience a matching reality.
You vibrate, and as you do, you are aligned to things that match the way you vibrate, as is everyone who shares your experience.
So when you think of a certain experience you are having now, and feel how that experience makes you feel, these thoughts and feelings to this event becomes a part of your vibration, and as it does, you align to cooperating events, circumstances and people who can help you to think and feel the same way.
For example, if while experiencing this relationship, you think and feel negativity towards him, you align to cooperating events, circumstances and people who can help you to think and feel in a negative way.
Or, if while experiencing him pushing you away, you think and feel about the rejection he has given you, you align to cooperating events, circumstances and people who can help you to think and feel more rejection.
Or, if while experiencing this worsening relationship, you think and feel about how he does not return your affection, you align to cooperating events, circumstances and people who can help you to think and feel more lack of affection.
Or, if while experiencing the lack of love that he offers you, you think and feel about how much you want and need him to love you, you align to cooperating events, circumstances and people who can help you to think and feel more wanting and needing of love.
I know that in other answers I have given you have probably read that to change an experience, and to end an experience that makes you think and feel less than what you desire, it is a good idea to list and focus on the best of what you have.
You may have also read that to improve a relationship you must think and feel in a way that matches the things you like best about someone.
But never have I said that through thinking and feeling a different way, you can make someone do something that does not match his or her own vibration.
You create your reality by the way you think and the way you feel, and as a result of your thoughts and emotions, you align to experiences that are a match.
But this is not a Law that is reserved for the few who realize this, this is a natural Law, and as such, it works for all people at all times.
He creates his reality by the way he thinks and the way he feels, and as a result of his thoughts and emotions, he aligns to experiences that are a match.
Yes, you may think and feel in a positive way towards someone, and if they can cooperate in the positive way you think and feel towards them, they could be a part of the positive thinking reality you are aligning to, but if they cannot cooperate in the way you think and feel, in the experience you are attracting, they must leave your reality as they are a uncooperating part of what you are vibrating.
To try and change you vibration in order to align to an experience that cannot cooperate with the way you vibrate is a futile exercise, and as you attempt this you shall start to think and feel the negativity, rejection, lack, want and need as this reality refuses to be changed. And as you think and feel about the negativity, rejection, lack, want and need that you are experiencing, you align to cooperating events, circumstances and people who can help you to think and feel more negativity, rejection, lack, want and need.
To think and feel the best of what you are experiencing now is definitely the way forward, but do this for you, not to change an experience that continues to make you feel less that what you desire, do it to find happiness, and as you find happiness you will align to cooperating events, circumstances and people who can help you to think and feel more happy.
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