Use The Law of Attraction To Get My Family Back Together

by Andrew
(Canada)

My ex and I are going through a separation. I thought I was out of love and found a new love. Only to find out that my love was for my ex. I confessed to her that I had been with someone else but I have strong love for her. I want to spend the rest of my life with her for who she is as a person. Can the laws of attraction help me?


Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Every union and every breakdown is evidence of the Law of Attraction. This is because as we think and feel, we hold a vibration, and it is depending on this vibration that people come and leave our experiences, helping us to maintain the frequency in which we vibrate.

If I thought that I was picked on, and felt nervous and insecure, I would add my thoughts and feelings of being an insecure, abused victim to my vibration, and as a result of my way of vibrating, the Law of Attraction would align me to the best cooperating person who will help me to remain picked on, nervous and insecure.

On the other hand, if I thought that I was lucky in relationships, and felt confident and self assured, I would add these thoughts and feelings to my vibration, and as a result, align to the best cooperating person to help me to remain thinking and feeling this way.

So what do I mean by a cooperating person?

When you think, you align through the Law of Attraction to a reality that matches your thoughts, but as this is a Law, when we all think, whether we know about these Laws or not, we must all align to a reality that matches the way we think. Therefore the reality you have, matches your thoughts, as does it match the thoughts of the people that share your reality.

Our shared reality matches the vibration of each individual who it affects, as a cooperating experience.

Although this cooperative idea of the Law of Attraction suggests that each of us that share an experience, must think the same way, it by no way does, as the experience of a single event can be thought of and felt about in many different ways.

For example, if someone is in an abusive relationship, they must have aligned to that relationship by what they think and feel, as must each person that shares this experience. But the reality for the abuser and for the abused, offer very different experiences.

So to have an experience, we must match our thoughts and feelings as if that existence already existed, and then, through the Law of Attraction we shall align to the best cooperative match to how we think and feel.

If you wish to find love, you must think and feel love, and then, through the Law of Attraction the best cooperative match to love shall be found. There is no point in ‘looking’ for love, because it must be within, before it can be ‘with-out’, and when you go chasing it, love, like all things that you chase, will tend to stay away from you.

So can you use the Law of Attraction to once more cooperate with ex?

The answer to that question is impossible to answer, because the Law of Attraction could just as easily push you together as tear you apart, as it all depends what you both think and feel.

I understand that you now realize that you have a strong love for her and want to spend the rest of your life with her, but you cannot control her experience, because her experiences will depend upon what she thinks and feels.

The only thing you can control is how you think about her, and how you feel about how she responds to you. If you notice that she is angry and dismissive towards you, and this makes you feel disappointment and desperation, then she can only cooperate with your thoughts and feelings by offering more anger and dismissal, helping you to remain disappointed and desperate. In fact, if this was your vibration, to stay she could would have to cooperate with you, otherwise she must leave the vicinity of your vibration completely.

As I said, it must be within, before it can be ‘with-out’, so by only offering your attention and emotions to the best of her, the best of how she makes you feel, will be the way to help her cooperate with the best of what you see.

To do this I would list all the things about her that make you feel good, all the things you love and all the things that make you feel happy, I would focus my attention to this list every morning and every night, until these things were so familiar that, as soon as I thought a thought or felt a feeling that was anything less than these things I loved, I would think and feel what I like best about her over and over again.

Of course, there is no guarantee that she will want to rebuild your relationship, but if this was your vibration, to stay she could would have to cooperate with you, otherwise she must leave the vicinity of your vibration altogether.

With Gratitude

John Peace
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