Use The Law of Attraction To Reconcile My Marriage
(San Mateo, CA, US)
How do I use the Law of Attraction to reconcile my marriage to my husband who filed for a divorce two months ago? We have been married for almost thirteen years. He moved out of our home and I want him back for good.
I am smart but easily frustrated, and I am working on my positive affirmations, I realized that I was manifesting mixed feelings with my anger and thoughts, while I also cared for him, like take care of his clothes, cooked for him and make sure that he is healthy.
I love him very much and I want to be married to him for the rest of my life and have more children and grandchildren with him. I want to reconcile our marriage.
I visualize that we'll be on vacation trips years from now, or family night games together. I know that I will be a awesome wife when he comes back. I know I won't be judgemental or critical.
What are effective Law of Attraction techniques I can use to bring him back?
How can I communicate with him, coming across as positive and reasonable?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
Your vibration is made up of your predominant thoughts and feelings, or your beliefs and emotions, and the experiences you have, depend on this vibration.
Our vibration can be said to be negative or positive, that is, that our predominant thoughts and feelings could be negative or positive.
Negative thoughts and feelings would be anger, frustration, unworthiness, or any other thought or feeling that don’t feel to good.
Positive thoughts and feelings would be excitement, happiness, optimism or any other thought or feeling that do feel to good.
If your vibration is negative, it would mean that your thoughts and feelings were negative, and the Law of Attraction would align you to experiences that continue to make you feel in this same negative way.
If your vibration is positive, it would mean that your thoughts and feelings were positive, and the Law of Attraction would align you to experiences that continue to make you feel in this same positive way.
So the only way that you can change the experiences you have, would be to change the way you vibrate, change your predominant thoughts and feelings.
However, the same could be said of your husband to…
Depending on his vibration, his predominant thoughts and feelings, the Law of Attraction would align him to experiences that continue to make him feel in the same way.
And the only way that he could change his experiences would be to change the way he vibrates.
There is absolutely no work you can do on your vibration, your thoughts and feelings, or your beliefs and emotions, to change his reality. That would defy Law.
So does this mean that the Law of Attraction does not apply to relationships?
Because we all have a vibration, the Law of Attractions job is to align all cooperative vibrations, so that all our vibrations match.
In other words, if you had negative feelings of anger and frustration towards someone, that person can either manifest a matching behaviour to your vibration, so that you can continue to feel more anger and frustration, or if they could not match your vibration, they would leave your reality, so that someone with a matching behaviour could enter.
In fact, the reasons for many poor
relationships is because of our seemingly ‘out of control’ vibration.
How often have you heard wives and husbands talking about, complaining about and being angry about their partner’s behaviour?
How often do you hear wives and husbands exclaiming that, “if only my partner would stop being this way, our marriage would be so much better.”
What many people fail to understand is this….
The very fact that they talk about, complain about and be angry about their partner’s behaviour, is the very reason it is there. It is this emotional investment in the change they need to see, that actually stops the change from happening.
It is the Law of Attractions job is to align all cooperative vibrations, so that all of our vibrations match, and if you include your partner’s unwanted behaviour into your vibration, the chances are, you’ll get more of the same.
After all, he was a matching vibration when you were looking for love and romance, and it was you who saw something you did not want to see, and for as long as you include that unwanted something in you, he will most likely, provide the perfect reality to match the way you feel.
So how do you use the Law of Attraction to improve your relationships?
By never talking about, complaining about and being angry about your partner’s behaviour.
By switching your attention from the things unwanted in your partner, to the things wanted.
By talking about, being grateful for and feeling happy about, all the good things in your relationships.
By focusing on the things you would never change about them, instead of the things you would.
But this doesn’t just go for your relationships, this is how you would change any unwanted reality you were experiencing.
Never talk about, complain about and be angry about any reality you have.
Switch your attention from the things unwanted in your life, to the things wanted.
Talk about, be grateful for and feel happy about, all the good things in your experience.
Focusing on the things you would never change about your life, instead of the things you would.
So will this vibrational change reconcile your marriage?
It is impossible to know.
If he can manifest a matching experience to your new positive vibration, then it could. Otherwise he may leave your vibration altogether.
But the point is this…
It does not matter whether or not there is a reconciliation, because as your vibration changes so will your experiences, and by focusing on the very best of what you have, only the very best of what you desire, will come.
If you do nothing, and stay the way you are feeling, then only more things will come to make you feel the same way.
If you miss him today, you shall experience more things to miss tomorrow.
If you are lonely today, you shall experience more lonely feeling things tomorrow.
If you are depressed today, you shall experience more depressing things tomorrow.
But if you are grateful today, you shall experience more things to feel grateful for tomorrow
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