Use The Law of Attraction To Talk To Him

by LDS

I'm wondering what can I do if I want to talk with some guy, I haven't been talking to for 7 months. This guy is my ex boyfriend, he broke up with me and he didn't explain why.

He met some girl and now they are a couple. I want to talk to him about the past and I want to understand why he left me after 4 years, I want to hear some explanations.

I used the Law of Attraction but it doesn't work. What should I do?

And please explain me how, if he doesn't want to talk with me and if he focus on that, whatever I do, I won't attract this conversation to my live?


Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The Law of Attraction is responding to your most focused thoughts and feelings. It is aligning events for to match these focused thoughts and feelings, and the reality you see and experience, is a match to your thought and the way you feel.

You are trying to manifest an event to satisfy a need that you have, which cannot happen, as the two things contradict themselves.

To try and explain what I mean, let’s look at an example of someone who is manifesting health problems.

If you predominantly think and feel healthy, you shall receive an experience of good health, and if you predominately think and feel unhealthy, you shall receive an experience of bad health.

However, this starts to get a bit subtler, especially when you are receiving an unwanted experience.

For instance, if you have been predominately thinking and feeling unhealthy, and you are receiving an experience of bad health, to change the experience, you may try and change your focused thoughts and feelings to ones of good health, to receive good health.

Many people will do this understanding that they have created the experience, and focus on a need, or a want to change.

They may use tools like affirmations, visualization and vision boards to apply this need for change, but they never see the results they aspire to.

This is because a ‘need’ or a ‘want’ in this situation causes more bad health.


To have a focused thought and feeling of needing or wanting, the thing you need and want cannot be in your experience, and as the Law of Attraction brings you an experience to match your focused thoughts and feelings, it has to bring an experience of being without the things you need and want, in order for you to continue to need and want them.

In your case, your focused thoughts and feelings are about a need for an explanation from your ex boyfriend. You want a conversation to provide a need for the reasons he made you feel so bad.

And as the Law of Attraction will always provide a reality as a match to your thoughts and feelings, you will continue to manifest situations and events to continue to have this need for an explanation.

It will also align events and circumstances for you to not have this conversation so that you can continue to want this conversation.

I understand that you feel that you will have some sort of fulfilment when you hear the reasons why he split up with you, but what you are really doing is expecting a change in his behaviour, to make you feel better, and that can never work

We often see this pattern when two people are having a difficult time in their relationships, when they notice a part of their partner that they do not like, and give that experience focus, energy and attention, hoping that their partner will change their behaviour.

Unfortunately, this only goes to reinforce the things you do not want to see, as the Law of Attraction aligns the situations and the events in order for this partner to manifest a match for your thoughts and feelings.

This is why it is always better to look for the best of any situation and relationship, and offer no thought and feelings to experiences that are unwanted.

Only you have the ability to make yourself feel better. You control your thoughts and emotions, and they are not dependant on anyone else.

Yes it is good to hear someone’s regret for their wrong doing to you, but it is much more powerful for you to exercise your forgiveness of this wrong doing, unconditionally.

Heal Your Unconscious Pain is a fantastic way of overcoming negativity, this book is written by Chris Dines, author of Power, Love and Abundance.

This e-book is going to show you how to heal yourself. Do not be fooled or judgemental by the simplicity and short content. These tools are Power!

You will need to be ready for the shift you are about to receive, though the shift will happen only when you take action. No action = no results.

So relax and take a deep breath. All is safe and you must be ready to heal because you have attracted this writing.

Click Here To Read Heal Your Unconscious Pain it is written in pdf, so you’ll need Adobe Reader to read it (you should have it on your PC).

EFT is another easy to use technique, and can be used to tackle emotional issues, physiological issues, limiting beliefs and health problems.

My favourite site is Try It On Everything. You can take your physical and emotional well-being into your own hands. It's simple for anyone to master.

Another great technique is called The Sedona Method.

Like EFT it has some great success stories, especially in tackling emotional issues and physiological issues, but importantly its development was conceived as a health solution tool, and as such has some unbelievable testimonials.

I have posted a video as an introduction to Sedona, which you can watch here.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…


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