Using The Law of Attraction To Be Together
(Edmonton, Alberta, Canada)
I have recently found an old love of mine. He was my first love. It was a deep love, true love. It's been 20 years since I have seen him. We both went our own ways... kids, marriage, the whole nine yards.
I just found we separated from our ex's around the same time... which was really odd... But now he has been with someone else for four years. He told me that he never fell in love with her, it just kinda happened... And that he wanted somewhere stable for his kids.
We have been talking a lot and getting close again (hugging and kissing)... my feelings for him are starting to stir up, (which makes me pine/cry for him every night)
He tells me that he always thinks about us, and what it would be like... whether or not the "grass is greener". He just wants to make sure that his kids are safe and happy.
I understand that because I have kids too. But I just want us to be a family so badly that I can taste it.....
How can I make this work out for the better?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
You cannot create in another’s reality.
The Law of Attraction brings to you the experiences as a match to your vibration. That is, whatever your focused thoughts and feelings today, will be matched to your reality in the future.
The Law of Attraction also brings to him the experiences as a match to his vibration. And whatever his focused thoughts and feelings today, will be matched to his reality in the future.
So as you cannot alter another’s reality by vibrating, or thinking and feeling in a certain way, only your focus, can never make this happen.
To be involved in a relationship together, each of your focuses must be a match, so that the reality you end up in tomorrow, matches the vibration of you both today.
So can you find true love, and a true relationship by using the Law of Attraction?
Yes of course you can, and as the Law of Attraction matches your focused thoughts and feelings, the only way to find true love in your reality in the future, is by matching to the equivalent to it now.
You need to think and feel love.
The trouble that many people have with this, is that they put someone up as the object of their love, in order to think and feel it. And as you have clearer demonstrated, their thoughts and feelings tend to match the lack of this experience, not the experience itself.
By placing this person into your mind as your only source, and the only chance of this true love and the true relationship you desire, because you lack this person now, you end up wanting so badly that you can taste it.....
This ‘wanting’ is your focus, your vibration, and by ‘wanting’ so badly you are lining up to your experience, a greater feeling of ‘want’.
To get what you want, you need to let go of wanting of it, and align with it, as having it now. You need to vibrate love.
When you vibrate love today, love shall be your experience tomorrow, but where that love comes from will not be down to you, it shall be from the best, the most matching and the most cooperative source of love there is to you.
Shall it be from this man?
If he is not the best, the most matching and the most cooperative source of love there is to you, then what does it matter, when you have the perfect love next to you.
If he is the best, the most matching and the most cooperative source of love there is to you, then as you have made an effort to align to this, it shall become your experience.
Focus on the lack of anything, then lack shall be your future.
Focus on the hope of anything, then hope shall be your future.
Focus on love, true love, unconditional love, then you shall be love, you shall have it, within, you shall feel it without, and you shall receive it in every part of your life.
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