Using The Law of Attraction To Deal With My Husbands ED
I have been married for 6 years and have only had a normal sexual relationship with my husband for the first 3 months or so. My first marriage and his second. He developed Erectile Dysfunction since then.
I have tried dealing with it in many ways, i.e. encouraging him to get medical help & counselling. As for me, I do yoga & meditation. However, he never follows up with his medical problem. He has also had to deal with financial issues.
I have tried to support him financially & encouraged him to be intimate, but he doesn’t follow through. However, he maintains that he loves me very dearly.
I do meditate for happiness, telling myself I'm attracting a harmonious relationship with my husband & daughter (conceived via artificial insemination). I tell myself that I'm attracting money that can help him financially and when that happens, the passion will come.
I want to stay positive all the time. Most of the time I can stay positive, but at times, the frustrations make me resent him and it's a battle for me to get back on track and focus on the positive sides of our marriage. He is a very nice guy.
Am I not applying the law of attraction correctly?Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
This is going to be a very difficult thing for you to tackle alone, as you are trying to manifest something, from somewhere where it does not exist at the moment.
What I mean is this….
You are trying to manifest a sexual relationship from someone, who for the time being, is unable to give you a sexual relationship
This endeavour will only lead you to impatience and frustration as you witness the failure of your efforts, and as you add this impatience and frustration to your vibration, you are aligning yourself with more experiences that give you these same feelings.
You are the creator of your own reality, and you have the ability to find happiness without sex.
You are right to practise meditation and Yoga, these things will help you see your experiences more clearly, as well as help you think more clearly. However, these things can have no effect in healing your husband, unless he is willing to be healed.
Your husband is the
creator of his reality, and this dysfunction is most definitely down to a way of thinking that he has. Basically, some how he has caused this to happen, and he is the only one who can undo it.
But this then puts you in a difficult position, do you try to help him take some of these ideas on board or not?
The problem that you face is that you cannot push the Law of Attraction on to him, from the point of view of changing his physical problems, without drawing attention to them, and the more attention you give something, (from a point of forcing change), the more difficult it is to change.
Possibly you could introduce him to the Law of Attraction to help his financially worries, and if he does decide to open his mind to these ideas, he will most definitely make the link between his way of thinking, and his physical condition.
From your point if view, I would concentrate on the best things of your relationship, and do everything you can to get happy where you are. If you concentrate on the things that make you happy, more happy things will come. This is the whole purpose of gratitude.
I would be careful about the intimacy in your relationship, there are ways of being intimate that are not sexual, and if he gets the idea that you are trying to be intimate to lead on to love making, he will feel the pressure and most likely withdraw.
Try thing like bathing together, feeding each other and embracing each other so that he can relax in your company, without feeling that he is letting you down by not making love.
Talking about his problems will help, but not talking him into getting help. It is better that he feels comfort with communicating his feelings about this problem with you, which may help him communicate his problem with a councillor or doctor.
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