Using The Law of Attraction To Find Interesting Friends
by Cruella Devil
I have been reading some of the questions and replies on here and it seems like you give sound advice. I would love your input on this question of mine that has been bothering me.
For some time now it feels like I have had friends in my life that are flaky, non-reliable, party poopers, or just not that open-minded. It frustrates me because I feel like most of the time I am compromising and not really happy doing the things I am compromising on.
I like to travel new places, particularly Manhattan (I do not live in Manhattan) and meet all different kinds of people.
Last night I went on with some friends to this cool trendy place and two of them weren't feeling the vibe and I could tell because it was messing with my energy.
Because of them, I didn't have a good night. And because of this experience, it just made me even more frustrated.
Sometimes I feel like "is this it? is this what having friends is about?" So I just want to know how to attract new friends into my experience that like the same things I do and are open-minded.
Please help before I go insane!Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
I am glad to see that you have identified this idea that we have ‘a vibe’ an ‘energy’, it is an important part of understanding how the Law of Attraction works.
It is this vibration that aligns us to our experiences, a good vibe brings us good experiences, and a bad vibe brings us bad experiences, and of course, all vibes in between.
So what makes up this vibration?
Our vibration is made up of our predominant, or focused, thoughts and feelings, and it is our vibration that aligns us, through the law of Attraction, to new experiences that are a harmonious match.
I guess the Law of Attraction could be termed the Law of Harmony, as all harmonious vibrations tend to align together.
So why is it that you are not aligned to the people you desire to be aligned to? Why is it, that if harmony is the desired result, you not feel the harmony of the friends you have? Why does there seem to be so much inharmonious alignment?
Lets look at how the Law of Attraction works again to try to understand this apparent disharmony….
It is our vibration that aligns us, through
the law of Attraction, to new experiences that are a harmonious match.
If this were the case, then the only way that this could be true would be if your vibration was a harmonious match to the unwanted experiences that you were having.
In other words, your thoughts and feelings about your friends must be that they are flaky, non-reliable, party poopers, for you to experience a reality of flaky, non-reliable, party pooper friends.
Your thoughts and feelings about your friends must be that they are not that open-minded, for you to experience a reality of narrow-minded friends.
Your thoughts and feelings about your friends must be that they frustrate you, for you to experience a reality of being frustrated with your friends.
You see, there is always a harmonious match, and for as long as you include flaky, non-reliable, narrow-minded, frustrating and party pooping friends in your vibrations, you shall continue to align with flaky, non-reliable, narrow-minded, frustrating and party pooping friends, or at least, that part of them.
So how do you attract friends into your experience that like the same things you do?
By noticing, talking about, focusing on, thinking about, feeling and being grateful for, the things you like about your friends now, and stop noticing, talking about, focusing on, thinking about, feeling and being sorry for, the things you do not like about your friends now.
By including the best of what you have into your vibration, and the best of what you would like into your vibration.
And as all harmonious vibrations tend to align together, the friends you have today shall either manifest a match to your new vibration, or leave your vibration altogether.
Then, as your vibration matches what you desire, more friends shall align with you, some will offer you what you desire, some will not and some will even sometimes match your vibration, and sometimes not. But by noticing, talking about, focusing on, thinking about, feeling and being grateful for, the things you like about these new friends, more of what you like about them shall be aligned to you.
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