Using The Law of Attraction To Find Interesting Friends

by Cruella Devil
(New York)

I have been reading some of the questions and replies on here and it seems like you give sound advice. I would love your input on this question of mine that has been bothering me.


For some time now it feels like I have had friends in my life that are flaky, non-reliable, party poopers, or just not that open-minded. It frustrates me because I feel like most of the time I am compromising and not really happy doing the things I am compromising on.

I like to travel new places, particularly Manhattan (I do not live in Manhattan) and meet all different kinds of people.

Last night I went on with some friends to this cool trendy place and two of them weren't feeling the vibe and I could tell because it was messing with my energy.

Because of them, I didn't have a good night. And because of this experience, it just made me even more frustrated.

Sometimes I feel like "is this it? is this what having friends is about?" So I just want to know how to attract new friends into my experience that like the same things I do and are open-minded.

Please help before I go insane!

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

I am glad to see that you have identified this idea that we have ‘a vibe’ an ‘energy’, it is an important part of understanding how the Law of Attraction works.

It is this vibration that aligns us to our experiences, a good vibe brings us good experiences, and a bad vibe brings us bad experiences, and of course, all vibes in between.

So what makes up this vibration?

Our vibration is made up of our predominant, or focused, thoughts and feelings, and it is our vibration that aligns us, through the law of Attraction, to new experiences that are a harmonious match.

I guess the Law of Attraction could be termed the Law of Harmony, as all harmonious vibrations tend to align together.

So why is it that you are not aligned to the people you desire to be aligned to? Why is it, that if harmony is the desired result, you not feel the harmony of the friends you have? Why does there seem to be so much inharmonious alignment?

Lets look at how the Law of Attraction works again to try to understand this apparent disharmony….

It is our vibration that aligns us, through the law of Attraction, to new experiences that are a harmonious match.

If this were the case, then the only way that this could be true would be if your vibration was a harmonious match to the unwanted experiences that you were having.

In other words, your thoughts and feelings about your friends must be that they are flaky, non-reliable, party poopers, for you to experience a reality of flaky, non-reliable, party pooper friends.

Your thoughts and feelings about your friends must be that they are not that open-minded, for you to experience a reality of narrow-minded friends.

Your thoughts and feelings about your friends must be that they frustrate you, for you to experience a reality of being frustrated with your friends.

You see, there is always a harmonious match, and for as long as you include flaky, non-reliable, narrow-minded, frustrating and party pooping friends in your vibrations, you shall continue to align with flaky, non-reliable, narrow-minded, frustrating and party pooping friends, or at least, that part of them.

So how do you attract friends into your experience that like the same things you do?

By noticing, talking about, focusing on, thinking about, feeling and being grateful for, the things you like about your friends now, and stop noticing, talking about, focusing on, thinking about, feeling and being sorry for, the things you do not like about your friends now.

By including the best of what you have into your vibration, and the best of what you would like into your vibration.

And as all harmonious vibrations tend to align together, the friends you have today shall either manifest a match to your new vibration, or leave your vibration altogether.

Then, as your vibration matches what you desire, more friends shall align with you, some will offer you what you desire, some will not and some will even sometimes match your vibration, and sometimes not. But by noticing, talking about, focusing on, thinking about, feeling and being grateful for, the things you like about these new friends, more of what you like about them shall be aligned to you.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…


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Disagree with explanation
by: Anonymous

I am sorry but I disagree with your explanation of why this person has attracted flaky friends. You said that: "your thoughts and feelings about your friends must be that they are flaky, non-reliable, party poopers, for you to experience a reality of flaky, non-reliable, party pooper friends. Your thoughts and feelings about your friends must be that they are not that open-minded, for you to experience a reality of narrow-minded friends"

But from what I get is this person is naturally an optimistic, happy kind of person who probably attracted these flaky friends first and then recognised them with these qualities.

I don't think she started viewing them as flaky and then they became that but rather she was always positive and these flaky people happen to be the kind of people she has attracted.

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Law-of-Attraction-Guide Comment
by: John Peace

Thank you so much for your comments.

I think there is a lot of truth in what you say here, it's a kind of a 'Chicken and Egg' story. In other words, which comes first?

It may be true that this person is naturally an optimistic, happy kind of person who probably attracted these flaky friends first and then recognised them with these qualities.

But my point here is this?

In all of our experiences there is contrast, there are the thing we like and there are the things we don't like. It is by focusing our thoughts on the things we like, that more likeable things come to us.

But of course, within these new experiences that come to us, there is still more contrast, there are still things that we don?t like (but less of them), and still things we do like. Again, it is by still focusing our thoughts on the things we like, that more likeable things come to us.

This is a never-ending circle of thought, feeling and creation, and for as long as you focus on the best of the creation, the better the creation will become. But, as soon as you switch your focus onto the unwanted, the creation will become unwanted to.

Or external world is always a reflection of our internal worlds, and our experiences depend on what we predominately think and feel.

Predominately think and feel that you are surrounded be a certain type of person, and you shall be. Change your thoughts and feelings, and either those people will leave your experience, or they will adjust their behaviour to match.

It is the very belief of what you see, that holds what you see, as truth. Change your belief, and so will the truth change.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below?


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Finding friends to appreciate you and you them
by: Anonymous

Great comments and I appreciate the other posters thoughts on the OP's post too.

I think you are exactly right John. I am a picky selective person when it comes to who I spend my time with because I tend to judge others harshly who don't live up to my expectations. In fact, I don't have friends because anytime I put myself out there, I'm disappointed in the experience.

In essence I don't really give anyone a chance before thinking, well, they aren't my type, they're self centered, etc etc.

I project that I'm a loner. I project nervousness around people though sometimes I think I project confidence but then second guess whether or not the other person likes or accepts me. It's a very vicious circle and one with a self fulfilling prophecy and that is; I'm unworthy to be liked, I don't have enough of what it takes to have people that want to be my friend, to care about me and therefore, I reject the possibility that I'm capable of maintaining and growing in my relationships with others.

So mostly what I've attracted (if I attract at all) is, self centered people or people who don't show a lot of interest in me or people who are even hostile when I do try to be confident, assertive and generally forthright.

All this said, I'm working on it with the LOA!!

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Attract friends
by: Anonymous

I am in a similar position, I seem to have high ecpectations and am constantly let down by my friends, also I can't find people with similar interests and cultural beliefs.

I don't like writing this as feels like I am adding to the negativity but would love some pointers on how to use the l.o.a to attract the right people into my life. I am a fun loving, caring friend with two girls, who loves socialising and has hobbies, I have a big circle of friends, but would like a best friend.

I have just read The Power by Rhonda Byrne, a great book.

I tried to practice the law of love and gave lots of love to my friends over a few days, then got disappointed again and gave up. I need to see results as am loosing my faith that it works.

Thanks for any advice.

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Law-of-Attraction-Guide Comment
by: John Peace

To be honest, if your reality isn't exactly what you want it to be, you will find much more value in, at first, accepting your reality as it.

I would call this 'Raising Your Vibration', and Allowing the Law of Attraction to finally work in your favor

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You will see that as you have been wanting and needing this change, that it is in fact, the want and need that you have, which has kept your desires away from you.

This is because as you want something, you only align to an experience of more want.

This is the great Law of Attraction dilemma.

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