Using The Law of Attraction To Rekindle A Friendship
Two people that were very dear friends to me have dismissed me from their lives, and it is very heartbreaking. I have tried to find out exactly why but I do not get a solid answer from either.
One is pleasant to me when need be but the other makes if very clear that he is not interested in continuing a friendship or even pretending to be cordial. I am not sure if the two incidents are related, but I would assume so, since they also are close, and their attitudes changed at the same time.
This has never happened to me before. I have never had good friends treat me this way so I am at a loss as to how to fix it.
It has really made me doubt myself and I have racked my brain as to what I did wrong. I come up with nothing. It upsets me that they have made me doubt myself and the friend that I have been to them which (vibrationally speaking), I know is making the situation worse.
I have envisioned us all being friendly again yet I know my self-doubt is halting progress. I know that you cannot control others through the law of attraction (not that that is my intention) but how can I handle the situation to put myself in a better place.
I am having a hard time getting over the fact that people think ill of me and I don't even know why.Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
It is true that you cannot control others through the Law of Attraction, but you can control your experience, and as your experience is partly made up of the others in your reality, you can choose what they manifest in your experience.
Your reality is made up of the cooperative events, circumstances and people, that manifest to you, an exact match to your vibration.
You vibrate, and the Law of Attraction aligns the cooperative parts of your reality to match the way you vibrate.
When I say cooperative parts, I mean the experience you receive, as a match to your vibration, and the overall experience as a match to everyone involved.
So, no you don’t control the way people behave, but you do experience a part of their behaviour that matches your vibration, if they are able to manifest it to you.
So what do I mean by your vibration?
Your vibration is made up of your predominant thoughts and emotions. It is a combination of, your beliefs, your attention, your conclusions, and your emotions, and whatever you believe, the things you give your attention to, what you know, and how you feel, is matched in your reality
So when it comes to these friends, what is it that you believe, what are the things you give your attention to, what do you know, and how do you feel?
Is it that you believe that
you have upset them? Do you give your attention to the fact that they don’t talk to you? Do you know that you are dismissed from their lives? And are you feeling heartbroken?
If this is your vibration, how can your reality be any different?
I know that you will probably think, or others reading this may think, that all these thoughts and feelings are only there because of the experience you are having. That maybe so, but it didn’t start that way.
You see, we experience contrast, we experience things we like and things we don’t like, and depending on how we think and feel about this contrast, defines our future experience.
Think and feel, and give your attention to an unwanted part of this contrast, and that unwanted part is recreated.
Think and feel, and give your attention to the wanted part of this contrast, and the wanted part is recreated.
So what is it that you want to experience?
If you wish to experience a special relationship with dear friends, then align your thoughts and feelings to that reality. Believe, think about, know and feel, nothing to the contrary.
To do this you need to practise your thought, you need to think about the good experiences you have had with these friends, and practise thinking these things.
Write down the things you like best about these people, and spend some time, every morning, and every evening, thinking about these things you like best.
As you go about your day, make these thoughts the predominant thoughts you have about these people.
When you have a thought about how you upset them, forget that thought, or get something for that thought, and think about the things you like best about these friends.
When you have a thought about them not speaking, forget that thought, or get something for that thought, and think about the things you like best about these friends.
When you have a thought about them dismissing you, forget that thought, or get something for that thought, and think about the things you like best about these friends.
When you have a thought about being heartbroken, forget that thought, or get something for that thought, and think about the things you like best about these friends.
Make the thoughts about what you desire a part of your vibration, and think nothing of the things you do not desire, and in time, and with practise, for as long as they are a cooperative part of your experience, they shall cooperate by manifesting to you, a match to what you vibrate.
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