Using The Law of Attraction To Talk To Someone
Hi I've posted some questions before here and it really helped so thanks a lot. Right now I'm generally happy, but there is one thing that has been bothering me.
In a few days I won't ever see someone who I really like ever again, and we haven't spoken for a few months, even though we see each other every day. I kind of got angry at that person and started ignoring him and he did the same and since then we never spoke.
I started to move on and I feel like I have, but I still feel upset that everything is going to end like this, without talking and without saying goodbye. So I'm thinking is there a way I can make myself talk to that person, because I really do miss him and the only thing that I really want is to have a proper talk with him and sort everything out.
Now I don't know how he feels because he is acting strangely, but I just can't help but want to talk to him. So do you think that’s possible?
Thanks a lot again.Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
In short, I very much do think that this is possible, but I do think that you need to make some preparations before approaching him.
To begin with, without going to deep in to the reasons for his ‘acting strange’ behaviour, in is not surprising that he may be coming across as strange to you.
You have given him a very mixed vibration, from anger, to indifference, and he has matched your vibration to yours. Now you are trying something else, a vibration of wanting communication, but when you get down to the source thought of this wanting, you will discover that you desire to communicate, has come from the initial thought of not having communication.
Your thought for this desire has come from a thought of lack, and you have built you desires up one by one, on top of this thought of lack, and as he always has done so, he is matching your vibration of lack.
Normally, I would suggest that you come back to the lack feeling and get happy there, before trying to manifest anything different, but because you have little time, here’s what I would do…
To begin with I would write down all the positive aspects of this person, any quality that he has shown you that has made you feel good.
Write down the feeling he gave you, and what he did to make you feel this way.
I would then spend some time, sitting quietly, feeling these feeling that you have associated with him.
You need to do this as much as you can, before talking to him, and if you get any negative thought that contradicts this list, read out the positive feelings, as a list of gratitude.
I would then write a statement acknowledging my past behaviour and accepting that I may not speak to him again, also wishing that he finds the success that he is looking for.
You would do this
to de-emphasise the feelings of ‘want’, which are feelings of ‘without’ and adjust your vibration to the best feeling of your now moment.
This statement would go something like this…
“I understand that ignoring ___________, was an inappropriate way to act, and even though it lead to a time of separation, I completely forgive myself. I also fully understand that the way I have been thinking has confused the way ___________ acts towards me. Even if I don’t get a chance to tell him personally, I hope that he is happy and finds the success he is looking for.”
I would then suggest that you write down your intended conversation, if by chance you had an opportunity to speak to him. What would you say, what would you want him to say, how do you want him to react when you speak to him, how do you want to feel when he reacts in the way you intend. But please keep this list to a conversation with him, do not try and manifest anything else.
Next I would write a statement of intent for this meeting, as a ‘wouldn’t it be nice’ statement, to join onto your acknowledgment statement.
This statement would go something like this…
“Wouldn’t it be nice to talk to ___________, so that we could share our emotions in a calm and appropriate way. It would be nice for us to share our feeling of ___________ and sort everything out.”
So the whole statement would be something like this…
“I understand that ignoring ___________, was an inappropriate way to act, and even though it lead to a time of separation, I completely forgive myself. I also fully understand that the way I have been thinking has confused the way ___________ acts towards me. Even if I don’t get a chance to tell ___________ personally, I hope that he is happy and finds the success he is looking for. Wouldn’t it be nice to talk to ___________, so that we could share our emotions in a calm and appropriate way. It would be nice for us to share our feeling of ___________ and sort everything out.”
Once you have written your statement, spend some time, sitting quietly, feeling these feeling that you have associated with this meeting, do this as much as you can, before talking to him, and if you get any negative thought, that contradicts this statement, read out your intensions again.
By doing both of these exercises, you are aligning to the vibration of the best of him, to you. And if you can really get into the feeling of this quickly, you may find that he approaches you, but it is likely that you will have to make the first move.
I hope this helps in some way…
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