Using The Secret To Win Him Back

by Sheen-Roi
(Japan)

Ok so I read through some of the questions on how you can’t win back an ex, because we don't have control over others thoughts and reality to form our desired reality, which I totally get the concept of.

However, I was reading through The Secret and this is a quote by John Assaraf, “Our job as humans is to hold on to the thoughts of what we want, make it absolutely clear in our minds, what we want, and from that we start to invoke one of the greatest laws in the Universe, and that's the Law of Attraction. You become what you think about most but you also attract what you think about most.”

So what I want to know is, even though we can’t control a person to feel or want what we want, can we at least, think of the person back into our lives.

I suppose an example or explanation is that although me and my ex are broken (amicable), and I can’t change his perception of me and our relationship, could I at least imagine him back in my life physically, and have another go at rekindling our relationship, (without asking the universe to make him want me again but from learning from the signs of what we did wrong)?

I really hope that makes sense. I think in the The Secret film/book Bob Procter mentioned, “imagine holding a conversation of a long lost friend and then he or she will be aligned in front of you.”

Therefore that would be the key of trying to get back an ex I would think.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Although the film The Secret has done a fantastic job in spreading the awareness of the Law of Attraction, personally I feel that the editing and presentation of the film offers, a far to simplistic view of how this actually works, and unfortunately, the film is the source of many misunderstandings.

Let’s just take a look at that John Assaraf quote, although I agree whole-heartedly with John’s words, I think that I hear what he is saying, slightly differently to you.

This is what I mean…

This is what you are hearing, “Our job as humans is to hold on to the thoughts of who we want….”

And this is what I am hearing, “Our job as humans is to hold on to the experiences we want….”

Something to understand is that it is an experience we attract, not the vehicle to experience it.

For instance, if I wanted to experience wealth and abundance, and successfully made wealth and abundance a part of my vibration, could I be missing all the opportunities and events sent to me by the Law of Attraction, if my only action to claim my wealth, was to buy a lottery ticket?

The same could be said of a relationship, if I had successfully made the perfect relationship a part of my vibration, could I be missing all the opportunities and events sent to me by the Law of Attraction, if my only action to claim my relationship, was to look in the place of a previous failed romance?

The Law of Attraction brings us all cooperative events, people and circumstances, to match our vibration, so that we can experience the desires we are focused on.

The key word here is cooperative… Cooperative Events, Cooperative People and Cooperative Circumstances, to match your vibration, and unless your ex is a Cooperative Match to the experiences you desire, he can not become a part of them

But, all this does not mean that you cannot change your experience with your ex…

Take a look at this answer for some tips on aligning with the very best of any relationship, I would also suggest that you read Abraham-Hicks book The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships




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