Wanting Him Back

by Jo

My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. The past 3 weeks were the worst time of my life. I had not been able to eat or sleep properly.

We'd not spoken until a week ago he got in touch with me. We had 2/3 conversations since then.

It wasn't a decision he wanted to make. He chose freedom over me because apparently I was causing him pressure...on top of his work and family. I knew I had to change before I could think about getting him back and I would do anything to make our relationship work again.

Please can you suggest the best way for me to apply the Law of Attraction?

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

A common misconception that many people have, is that they need someone else to act in a certain way, before they can become happy.

We see this most often in our relationships, particularly romantic relationships.

It is often the case that as these relationships start, because each of the partners are looking for, “the things that make them happy”, these relationships are fun, exciting, joyful and passionate.

But all to often, as they relationships age, there is less fun, less excitement, less joy and less passion, and as these feelings start to dwindle, many people look for a change of behaviour in their partner, in an attempt to relight the spark.

It is this ‘pressure to change’ that is the cause of most discord in most unhappy and broken relationships, and the sooner that people realized that they do not need to change another, in order for them to feel good, the easier, more joyess, and more satisfactory these romantic relationships will be.

You see, the Law of Attraction brings to you your experiences, based on the way you feel, your vibration. And as you notice, talk about, complain about or think about, any of your experiences, you include these feelings into your vibration, and the Law of Attraction responds by lining you up with more of the same.

So if you are in a relationship and you notice, talk about, complain about or think about, any unwanted experiences in that relationship, the Law of Attraction lines you up with more of the same unwanted experiences.

In other words, at the root of the problem in most relationships, is a focus on what is mostly not wanted, and if we were to change that focus, most of our relationships could be the fun, exciting, joyful and passionate relationships we started with.

So my suggestion for the best way for you to apply the Law of Attraction in your relationships would be, to concentrate all your thought on the very best of the people you come into contact with each day.

Notice their good points, their quality, and their positives. Ignore their negatives and offer this side of them no thought, no feeling, and no vibration.

Start your day in gratitude for these wonderful people you are in contact with, and never expect anyone to be different in order for you to be happy.

If you can do this, then everyone you experience will always offer you exactly what you think and feel about them, and if they do not match this positive vibration, they will never be placed in your company.



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