What If I Refuse?

by Gila
(Israel)

I gained insight into the Universal Law Of Attraction several years ago and recently returned to these teachings. I chose to be interested and to follow this technique in order to obtain the single thing I want most in life:


The company of someone special I have been in love with for many years now.

Throughout this entire time I tried and often succeeded to have "energetic dialog" with this man.

The last time I spoke to him, saying I love him very much and I want us to become lovers. Then came his reply: "What if I refuse?"

This man doesn't want to be a part of my life.

This man wants me to leave him alone.

My question is

1) How can the Law of Attraction work for me under these conditions?

2) Do I still have a Moral Right to follow my own desires and ask to be with this man even though HE doesn't want it?

Thanks

Gila

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

I often get asked questions regarding an unwilling partner, or an unwanted response from someone who does not comply with the wishes of another.

To answer this I would like to answer you second question first;

“Do I still have a Moral Right to follow my own desires and ask to be with this man even though HE doesn't want it?”

Well Gila, you never did!

No one has said, or will ever say, that you can use the Law of Attraction to bring an individual into line with your wishes, when that individual does not wish for the same.

If that could work then the Law of Attraction would not be a Law.

You see the Law of Attraction works for you, for me, for everyone, regardless of whether they know about it or not.

Today I know about the Law of Attraction, and make use of my knowledge, to bring into my life, my most wanted experiences. But, that hasn’t always been the case.

There was a time that my experiences were most unwanted, but I was still using the Law of Attraction as effectively as I am now. It’s just that I now consciously create my reality, instead of being a victim of my worse fears.

So how could you impose your desire on another who does not desire it, it cannot work, you are trying to use Law to impose something on someone who is using Law to stop it.

If we say that the Law of Attraction is the Law by which our reality reflects our inner most beliefs, then, as you both have different beliefs, how could you both experience the same reality?

Ah......... I here some people say, if the Law of Attraction is the Law by which our reality reflects our inner most beliefs, and I truly believe that I will be happy when we are together, how come that is not the reality I see?

Well it is!

You see Gila when you said that you chose to;

“.... follow this technique in order to obtain the single thing I want most in life: the company of someone special I have been in love with for many years now.”

This is what I hear;

“I am extremely unhappy that I am not in this relationship, and I am desperately trying to become happy by using the Law of Attraction to bring me the one thing that I know will make me happy”

There is only one inner most belief when I say it, and that is;

“I am extremely unhappy that I am not in this relationship.”

I know that I may have been a bit harsh, but for your own sanity, you have to stop this now.

So, in answer to your first question, can the Law of Attraction work for you in these conditions?

Yes it can.....

You can use the Law of Attraction to bring you anything you desire, health, wealth, happiness and love, but.... You cannot chose the vehicle...

You can overcome illness, but cannot predict the cure for disease.

You can bring riches, but cannot predict the source of money.

You can live in happiness, but cannot predict the reason for harmony.

You can be loved, but cannot predict the lover.

Choose to live in love Gila, make it your true desire, but do not wait, start to live in the spirit of love, and it will be impossible to keep it from you.

Be happy today, imagine yourself living in happiness, in love and start creating your own special reality.

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by: Anonymous

I would like to reply to Gila and here are my views on her situation.

I totally agree with John’s answer to the question but would like to add the following:

One can’t infringe your will onto someone else. The moment one tries to do that, you are actually sabotaging yourself, the negative emotions, and the lack of what you don’t have, is normally stronger than the positive emotions you may think you are projecting. As I understand the Law Of Attraction the stronger emotions will always be the ones you will eventually attract into your life.

Good Luck and may you truly find the happiness you deserve,

JT

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