What's The Use of The Law of Attraction In Relationships
I have read so so so many true stories and articles about the Law of Attraction and relationships. Now I have some questions:
If we cannot change others desires and thoughts, what’s the use of the Law of Attraction in any field which is related to the other people’s thoughts and feelings?
I know how great it is that nobody else has this power to create my reality, but I cannot understand how this law is useful in any relationship?
When my partner has left me, or she/he is getting colder and colder about me, etc. What can I do with this law, if I cannot change her/his idea or desire?
When my partner leaves me for another one or ‘cause he/she doesn’t love me anymore, what can I do?
And when I still have this burning love for him/her, should I just let him/her go?
Should I wait happily for another relationship?
Are relationships just like clothes to change them whenever I’m forced to?
I myself have applied the Law of Attraction in many other areas of my life. It is working amazingly for money, university, grades etc. But when things comes to my relationship….!
Please help me understand…
THANK YOU.Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply
You need to think of the Law of Attraction as a Law of Harmony, as each aspect of our experiences, must be in harmony with the aspects of other people’s experiences.
When I think, I create, and the Law of Attraction aligns all cooperative parts of my reality, to match my thoughts.
The key here is the word ‘cooperative’, as this is the part of the process that keeps everything in harmony.
Our reality is made up of many parts, events, circumstances, opportunities and people, and when these many parts of our reality are aligned as a match to our thoughts, they have to be aligned with everyone else’s thoughts to.
So, an event that comes your way, as a match to something you have been thinking, must match all other peoples thoughts, that are connected to the event. All must be in harmony.
Therefore, any event that takes place in a relationship must be a cooperative event within that relationship. All must be in harmony.
I know that an ‘unwanted’ event in a relationship doesn’t give an idea of harmony, but as it is a match to the thought of both parties involved, it is an event that is in harmony with the thought of each person.
If we take just a couple of the ideas in your question, we can see how this idea of a Law of Harmony might work.
For example, you may notice that your partner is cold towards you. This noticing is thought, and the more you think about this experience, the more that you notice that she is cold. This more noticing, is more thought, and leads to more thinking about the fact that she is cold.
Eventually, you notice and think about this coldness so much, you expect it. You anticipate this experience. You believe it. And as belief is just practised thought, this idea about your partner being cold makes up your predominant thought.
Now, as the Law of Attraction aligns with your thought, and produces events, circumstances, opportunities and
people to match your predominant thought, you are aligned to experience a reality of more coldness. And for as long as your partner is a cooperative person that can produce this reality for you, she will continue to be cold towards you. Otherwise, she must leave your reality altogether.
Another idea you brought up in your question is if your partner was to leave you for another.
Again, you may be jealous that your partner speaks to other people. This jealousy is thought, and the more you think about this experience, the more jealous you feel, and the more you experience your partner speaking to other people. This leads you to think more thoughts of jealousy, which leads you to think that she likes other people.
Eventually, you think about this reality so much, you expect it. You anticipate this experience. You believe it. And as belief is just practised thought, this idea about your partner being interested in other people makes up your predominant thought.
Now, as the Law of Attraction aligns with your thought, and produces events, circumstances, opportunities and people to match your predominant thought, you are aligned to experience a reality of your partner being with other people. And for as long as your partner is a cooperative person that can produce this reality for you, she will continue to have an interest in other people. Otherwise, she must leave your reality altogether.
In both of these cases the unwanted experience only exists because you let it exist in mind, and for as long as you give the unwanted the seed of thought, it shall grow into your experience. It is Law.
Does this mean that the Law of Attraction has no place in relationships?
Absolutely not, it can make and break any relationship, as any experience, included an experience with another, is the result of the Law of Attraction in action.
No you cannot control the thoughts, or the experiences of another, but you can control your own. And for as long as you align yourself to the experiences you desire, and for as long as the people in your reality can be a harmonious match to your desires, you shall experience a perfect match to your thought.
Fear nothing in any relationship, and there shall be nothing to fear.
Love everything in all relationships, and all you shall see is love.
You are what you think about, most of the time, and for as long as you give your attention, thought and energy to the best parts of the people you experience, the best of what they have for you, shall be manifested.
If there is something about your partner you do not like, never notice, comment, complain, or dread this thing, and there will be nothing unliked to notice, comment, complain or dread.
The perfect relationship comes from the perfect thought about it, and anything less than perfect thought, will produce an imperfect relationship.
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