Why Is The Law of Attraction Not Working

by Alena Q
(Cape Cod, MA)

I made a list a few months ago of everything I wanted in a perfect boyfriend who would eventually become my husband in 15 years or so (because I'm a teenager). I want to find a guy that I can love now, and be known when we are older, as "the high school sweethearts".

Anyways, This list is over a page long. Everyday I imagine him, get happy and giddy like a little girl just thinking about him. I know he's out there. But for some reason - he's not here yet!

I really want to meet him soon. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong!

Do I need to be more grateful?

Do I need to visualize more?

Help! I want to meet my soul mate!

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

You can never be too grateful, and you can never visualize too much, but in your case, neither visualization nor gratitude is the key.

In fact you give the perfect example of a perfect visualization, “Everyday I imagine him, get happy and giddy like a little girl just thinking about him.” This is perfect, and exactly what you want to be doing.

So why has it not happened yet?

It has not happened because you have given attention, energy and feeling to it not happening. In other words, the very act of noticing, thinking about and feeling that this has not happened, holds your desires away.

To have the things you desire, you need to let go.

Here’s a short extract from my Law of Attraction training program, Unlock The Power of You.

“It is our human nature to look for solutions, certainly without it, we would not have evolved to such intelligent and creative creatures.

In our quest to find the right ways to create our desires, we often overlook ideas and inspirations, because we are bound by our preconceived ideas of what will work or not.

We therefore set goals, and try to achieve our goals based on what we think will work, rather than just going with the flow.

When you turn things over to the universe, as you have practised up to now, you have to understand that the Universe, God, Cosmic Mind, or whatever you want to call it, sees things from a much bigger perspective than you ever could.

So you have to trust that the right opportunities, ideas and circumstances will come to you, at exactly the right moment.

I guess the best way to describe Letting Go, is having Faith And Belief that what you ask for, will come.

But Letting Go doesn’t mean sitting back and doing nothing, it means Taking Action, or better still, Taking Inspired Action, the kind of action that wild horse’s couldn’t keep you from.

Are You Letting Go?

If you are not Letting Go you will know, as your thoughts will tell you.

When you are not Letting Go, you will hear it in your ‘Brain Chatter’ as it is demonstrated by questions like How, Why, Where and When, that seem to uncontrollably keep popping into your head.

These little thoughts can also express themselves as doubt, criticism, impatience, anger, frustration or worry, and as much as you try to knock them down, they more and stronger they seem to pop back up.

All these uncontrollable thoughts are signs that you are not letting go, and demonstrate the lack of faith and belief that you are experiencing.”

If you would like some help with this, sign up for my Free Unlock The Power Mini-Course, you’ll discover how to combine your emotions to the things you want, making your most desired experiences manifest quickly.

If you have any thoughts, or if anyone has any thoughts, please join in and add a comment below…



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