Wonder What I Am Doing Wrong

by atharva

I meditate, I stay positive & I try not to think of my financial state & concentrate on what I want & not what I don't want, but still nothing seems to work, I affirm on a daily basis, but wonder why isn't it working for me?

Please help

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

Hi Atharva,

If you read your question carefully, I think you’ll find the answer to your question staring right at you...

Just in case, I’ll point out a few things to you, you said,

“I try not to think of my financial state”

That suggests to me that you do think about your financial state.

You also said,

“but still nothing seems to work.”

That suggests to me that your belief is, that no matter what you try, you just don’t get what you are asking for.

So by focusing on your unwanted financial state (even when you try not to), and by believing that, what you ask for, never turns up, you are in fact, receiving everything you believe you’ll receive.

Here’s a video from Abraham, talking through Ester Hicks, about this very same thing.

If it is true that you must visualize to Master the Law of Attraction, how is it that, even with practise, not everyone will see the desired result?

It is true that through and by visualizing, you can change your current reality, but visualization is just focused thought, and it is not just your focused thought that is creative, it is all thought.

Each and every thought that enters your mind is creative, and each and every thought you entertain, sews itself into the reality of your future.

Now since most people tend to think about their reality, it follows that their experiences will keep turning up day in and day out.

So how do you master these ideas?

If you want to Master the Law of Attraction, the very first thing you must learn to do, is set goals.

Without firm, precise and definite goals in your life, you will never begin to harness this power, and here's why.

If you wish to attract anything into your life, you must learn to “live in the spirit” of the thing wanted.

The Law of Attraction teacher Charles Haanel, tells us to

“Live the spirit of these things,
Until they become yours by right.”

What he is saying here, is the true secret to Unlocking the Law of Attraction.

The expression,

“you must hold it in your head,
Before you hold it in your hand,”

Sums up quite well, what Haanel means.

He is telling us to visualize our goals to harness the power of the Law of Attraction, and that to “live in the spirit” of a thing, is the true way of visualizing.

It was one of the greatest teachers of all, who told us,

“What things soever ye desire, when ye pray,
Believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.”

(Mark 11:24)

To put that in a more modern context, I would say,

“Whatever things you wish to attract to your life,
Visualize yourself already experiencing these things,
And the Law of Attraction will bring them to you.”

So, to get the things you want, you need to act as if you already have them, and to do that, you need to be very specific about the things you want.

To understand how to “live the spirit” of your goals you need to understand your Primary Drive Emotion.

And then use these emotions to generate the feelings of 'having it now.'

What Is A Primary Drive Emotion?

When you state the things you want to attract into your life, it’s not the things you really want, it’s the experience or emotions that the things give you.

For instance, if you want more money in your life, it’s not the money you really need, it’s the exchange value of the money.


Because you can use the exchange value of money. You can use it to surround you, with the objects and experience that can make you Happy, Secure and Free.

Let's say that you goal was to attract Financial Success.

Many people may write their goal in the following way.

“I want to attract Financial Success into my life.”

They would then use all forms of visual and non-visual methods to enforce their goal.
But their goal would never be reached!

You see the Law of Attraction is driven by emotion, and the underlying emotion in this goal is “wanting.”

Using a goal like this Fails to manifest Financial Success, but Manifests a Stronger Feeling of Wanting Financial Success.

To attract Financial Success into your life, you need to “live the spirit” of already having it, and to do this you need write your goal, replacing the word ‘want’ with the emotion you'll have when you attract it.

So if your emotions connected to financial freedom were Love Life, Freedom, Exciting Experiences and Security.

You would write your goal in the present tense, replacing the word ‘want’ with your these emotions, like this..

“I am enjoying the Security and Loving the Freedom and Excitement that my Financial Success continues to bring Me.”

The phrases ‘I am enjoying’ and ‘loving’ are ‘present tense statements.’ You are stating your goal as an already achieved reality.

Security, freedom and excitement are your emotions, when you have achieved your goals.

Financial Success is your goal.

And, one more trick, the word ‘continues’ is important as a ‘process word’ as it presupposes that you will ‘continue’ to have Financial Success.

If you need help with goal setting and visualization, sign up for my free mini-course called Unlock The Power of You

You’ll find some great tools to help you master these ideas.

In the first Free Lesson I have included some simple worksheets for you to complete, so that you can identify your Desired Outcome, and go on to uncover your ‘Primary Drive Emotion.’

Also there are some great techniques to help emotionalise and anchor your goals your subconscious.

This will make visualizing your goals much more powerful as you enhance the feelings of having it now.

I hope I have helped a little, and Good Luck.....



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